Friday, March 21, 2008

"Classless, desperate act"

2 articles in the Waco Tribune Herald today:
Lawsuit re-filed against former Central Texas pastor in his wife's death
Ex-minister wants bond back in arrest on murder charges in wife's death

The Dulins’ attorney, Bill Johnston, of Waco, called the allegations in Gray’s motion a “classless, desperate act.” “To me, it just sounds very desperate on their part, and it seems like it is irrelevant speculation,” Johnston said. “It strikes me as a tactic to scare Linda off from pursuing this case. But that lawyer doesn’t know us and her very well if he thinks that is going to scare her off.”

Yup, Mr. Johnston, you got that right.

Kari Baker’s parents, Linda and James Dulin, who refiled a wrongful death lawsuit against Baker on Thursday, reacted angrily to Gray’s assertions. “I don’t believe Kari ever had an abortion,” Linda Dulin said. “Nothing in the papers that were filed even suggested one. Mr. Gray has made an unethical claim that can’t be backed up.” Dulin added, “However, Jim and I loved our daughter. We were so proud to be her parents. Our love for her wasn’t conditional, no matter what happened in her life. Lies and mudslinging like Mr. Gray and Matt Baker are resorting to will backfire.”

Dulin questioned why Baker is the only one close to Kari who has said she was distraught, depressed and suicidal. Others have said she was positive, happy and looking forward to a new job. “Matt can’t have it both ways,” Dulin said. “He can’t say he loved Kari in one breath and then disparage her time after time. Not once since her death has he said anything kind or loving about her. What does this show his daughters, Kari’s daughters?”


Anyone else find it interesting that this bogus mud is slung at Kari on Good Friday? This is so unethical and desperate that it's almost humorous. Almost.

Another article on the KCEN.com website has this story:
Family of Central Texas teacher re-files wrongful death suit

A former local pastor accused of killing his wife filed a motion to have those charges dropped.
Matt Baker and his attorney released new accusations against Kari Lynn Baker they said will prove his innocence.

That’s as her family filed a wrongful death suit against him before the statute of limitations runs out. It’s a murder mystery that's gained national attention: a former Baptist preacher, now accused of murdering his wife two years ago. His attorney wonders how all the publicity will impact the case. "It's a two edged sword and I really don't know which way it will fall.

Re-reading the articles and the motion GJG filed. Okay. Re-reading it again. Hmmmm.....I guess I'm really missing something here. New accusations that prove his innocence? Nope. Can't find anything remotely close. Really, really weak try....not to mention rather unethical and low and desperate. And we'll see very soon which way things fall.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Civil Suit

Well, it's all over the news like it's some shocking story. But if you think about it, it's basic "MyDaughterWasMurdered 101" + Simple Math = 2 year deadline coming up.

You have two years from the time of death to file a wrongful death suit. It will be 2 years April 8. The DA's office is moving along, too. It looks like someone may get it from both ends. Justice is not blind. Thank God. Everyone get ready.
You can see the news blips here:

KCEN-TV (Channel 6) - Family of Central Texas teacher re-files wrongful death suit
KXXV (Channel 25) - More drama for ex-pastor accused of Killing Wife
KWTX (Channel 10) - New lawsuit filed against Matt Baker

Now, let's see how easily Matt's side answers for their actions coming up tomorrow. Desperation is an ugly thing to watch.
(Click on image above to view larger.)
Pictures courtesy of Linda Dulin

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Another sweet email....

I went to Waco Christian with Kari and want the family to know how sorry I am for their loss. Kari had amazing energy, such a wonderful attitude and personality, and was so full of life!

Kristi - 1991 graduate

Friday, March 7, 2008

20/20 Comments

Wow. I'm almost speechless. You?

TM Comment

Saw this comment posted on www.texasmonthly.com. Just passing it along.

Law Did this Baptist preacher kill his wife?
posted by julie_gjjrdw
on Thursday, February 28, 2008 @ 12:54:27 CST

I have just finished following the Mark Jensen murder case online at cnn.com/crime. This case and the case of Matt and Kari Baker are eerily similar in every aspect. I hope Kari’s family is aware of this trial that was in Kenosha, WI, and just came back with a guilty verdict for the husband who drugged and poisoned and killed his
wife and said she committed suicide, even though she had 2 children at home and had just applied for a job she wanted, and was cooking sugar cookies and taking her kids to karate and planning movie nights to watch Christmas movies ... the list just goes on and on. I would like to be able to contact them with this information, but if someone would just pass it along? Thanks.

Thursday, March 6, 2008

20/20

As far as I know, 20/20 has their interviews scheduled to air this Friday. I think it will only be a 20 minute segment in the hour-long show, though. That's really not much time to adequately cover both sides, but that's just their format, I suppose. I pray that 20/20 will do a fair job and not trade truth for drama.

UPDATE:
I just came across this "press release" on this website --

DID A POPULAR BAPTIST MINISTER MURDER HIS WIFE? JIM AVILA'S REPORT AIRS ON "20/20," FRIDAY, MARCH 7 AT 10:00 P.M. ET
Plus: Actress Tori Spelling Speaks
Exclusively to Elizabeth Vargas; Brian Ross Probes Claims of Man Who Says He May Be JFK's Love Child; John Stossel Previews Upcoming "Age of Consent" Report

Was the untimely death of a Baptist preacher's wife really a suicide, as the justice of the peace first ruled, or was the perfectly healthy mother of two murdered by her husband? In an exclusive television interview, ABC News Senior Law and Justice Correspondent Jim Avila asks Matt Baker, the popular Baptist minister from Waco, Texas, why Kari, his seemingly fine wife, would commit suicide, leaving behind two daughters. He says that she was depressed and "could never let go of Kassidy," their daughter who died from a brain tumor when she was 16 months old, almost a decade ago. But Kari's family suspected foul play and the police took another look into the private lives of the Baker family. Will the secrets revealed lead to a murder charge for Matt Baker? The report airs FRIDAY, MARCH 7 from 10:00-11:00 p.m., ET on the ABC Television Network.

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Thank You!

I was out of town most of the last week so I apologize for the delay in moderating comments. I do want to thank you all for the wonderfully encouraging (and informative!) emails you've sent me. The fight for justice for Kari doesn't just involve "Charlie's Angels" and an "enterprising housewife" blogger, let me tell you.

Thanks again. And if I missed anything while I was gone, let me know.

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

From the TM comments today:

Anonymous said...
I think it's funny that ever since texas monthly called the blog dontevengetstarted.com" a gossip site that has lots of angry postings shannon gamble has now put up several "MEMORY" headlines to deceive what new bloggers to the site think about it. If you look at the angry postings and how there was only one "MEMORY" headline until the TM article came out and now lo and behold there are 3 in less than a week???The site was NOT a site for memories before and is not now, no matter what that so called "internet sleuth" says. She needs to get herself either a job or a hobby, raising her kids would be a good place to start.
February 26, 2008 5:46 PM


GoodLordaMercy. Now, I'm the "deceiver." That's almost humorous. Here's my response:
Shannon said...
1) There was more than one memory on the blog before TM hit the stands. Read.
2) Think about it. TM hits the stands. Hundreds of new visitors to the blog. Some new visitors left a memory. I decide to post the memories so they aren't missed by being lost in a comment area somewhere. I don't think that's hard to understand. Does it bother you to read about Kari's friendships?
3) I've explained myself on the blog...why I started it and why I continued it. You can say, think and feel whatever you want about it. It doesn't change the truth at all.
4) I do have hobbies. One of them is fighting for justice for a murdered friend.

God bless!

Yet another wonderful friend....

The "Defense" keeps claiming Kari was depressed, sullen and didn't form deep friendships. Nice try, guys. It sure doesn't sound that way from emails I've gotten and from comments left here......oh, and knowing her personally. Another friend says:

I would just like to say that Kari was a really good friend of mine. Matt was the pastor of our church, and Kari and I got to know each other very well. We hung out all the time, and we were always with the girls. I loved Kari and Matt both dearly. Matt even married my husband and I. I have had a very very hard time with this over the last two years. I just can't get her out of my head, as hard as I try. I am torn. Matt married us, and did premaritial counseling with us. The more I read and hear, the more I wonder if he really did kill her. I don't know for a fact whether or not he did it. All I do know is that I love Kari still to this day. She was a wonderful woman with such a vibrant spirit. As much as I miss her voice and her face, I am so glad that she is now back home with her daughter whom she missed. I know that her other two girls are very strong, and even though they probably miss their mother very much, I know they will be ok. Thank you for this blog and the oppurtunity to talk to others who miss Kari as much as I do. I have thought for a long time that I am the only one who feels like this. Thank You!! I love you Kari, and you are greatly missed!!

Posted by Anonymous to Don't Even Get Me Started at February 26, 2008 2:19 PM

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Another memory shared....

I am an old friend of Kari's! She was sweet enough to hang out with us '94's even though she was already a cool '93 grad. I will never forget riding around in her maroon car listening to music (I still hear those songs to this day), her life guarding days, house sitting The Silver's house, Blake's crush on her & Kari & Todd's relationship. We were inseperable. Who could ever forget that laugh?

I will tell you that I am sad that as we grew older that we lost touch. But, with the grace of God I ran into her just before she died. I am so greatful that I had that last moment with her. I will also say that Kari was a STRONG individual. No matter how much sorrow you saw her showing, that was only natural. We are not put on this earth to bury our children. Anyone who thinks it odd for her to show any sorrow on the anniversary of her daughter's death has no heart of their own. Take it from some one who knows. I take care of 2 little girls who no longer have their mother to do so. The affect it has had on us all is amazing. I could not even imagine what it was like to have been in Kari's shoes! I loved this girl & miss our old days.

Kari, I know that you are watching all of this from above. I know that your name will have justice & glory after this is all said & done. Believe me, all that condemn you, will pay. Your daughters will know the truth in time. Those who condemn you today, will pay later. I know you are in good hands today, and with that thought, I have peace. I pray for your family's strength to carry on this fight for you. Love & hugs to you!

Posted by tap to Don't Even Get Me Started at February 23, 2008 10:45 PM

Saturday, February 23, 2008

"Come Share a Memory"

Another sweet memory shared. Thanks, Jill & Joe.

Kari was one of my best friends growing up. In fact, there is hardly a memory of my growing up years that does not include her. Kari was full of life, even as a child. My memories of her include countless sleepovers and slumber parties, church camp, church plays, and lots and lots of laughs. My most favorite memory is of a time we rode our bicycles across town to visit a friend, I believe we were in Jr. High. She gave me her dad's bike (on which I could not reach the pedals) to ride. For some strange reason, the neighbor's dog followed us. By the time we reached our friend's house, every single dog in town was running behind us. We were laughing so hard we fell off of our bikes! I think of her often and pray that justice will be served.
Jill

Posted by Joe & Jill to Don't Even Get Me Started at February 22, 2008 11:56 PM

Got a memory to share? Tell us about it here.

Friday, February 22, 2008

StopBaptistPredators.com

Just got an email that this site is posting an update on their front page.

Upon looking closer, I noticed that StopBaptistPredators.com has a blog and the Baker case is a feature post:

Why didn't Baptists bust him?

"Texas Monthly's cover story is about a Baptist preacher accused of killing his wife. I don’t know whether he did it or not. But the investigation certainly uncovered some ugly stuff about how easily a Baptist minister can rise in the ranks despite allegations of sexual abuse and sexual ssault. Investigators now say that Matt Baker “spent years in Waco leading… a secret life as a sexual predator.”

Let me condense some of the history and allegations set forth in the article. " (read more...)

Thursday, February 21, 2008

My "Why?"

This was my response when asked last December, "Why did you start the blog?"

I started this blog strictly for Kari. My son was in her 3rd grade class at Spring Valley when she was killed. Of course at first we (the parents) were simply told she died in her sleep. Then within a couple days the suicide rumor started its course. I grieved thinking that this woman that I saw 5 days a week when I picked the kids up at school...and that spent more waking hours on those days with my son than I did...was hurting THAT bad and I didn't know it...didn't feel it. But it was just another few days when I "knew" in my heart that she did not, in fact, take her own life. Nothing added up right. And I felt it. For some reason, ever since then I felt Kari's hand on me. That's just the best way I can describe it. It's as if she wants me to "Hang on. Wait with me. The time will come when you can do something." And that's kinda weird. We weren't terribly close in an intimate friendly way. I didn't really "know her" outside of school. Our relationship was built around my boy and our joint venture in his education and well being. She was a phenomenal teacher. And she loved my boy. And for that, I loved her.

When the inquest was going on and then with the judge changing the finding of death from suicide to undetermined, I started getting phone calls and stopped by friends and family about whether I "had heard" or knew anything. People knew/know that I was very personally interested in this case and that I'm an information junkie. If there's information to be had, I'll find it. I got busy. I wanted to know everything. To satisfy my organizing of the information and to share that information with others, I started up a plain-looking little blog. I had tinkered with blogs in the past and it was a quick and easy thing for me to start up. So when my family and friends asked me what I had found out recently, or had I seen the latest TV news interview, or what was going on....I simply had to "link" 'em up. Even though I knew it was a public blog, I thought it'd be lost in the huge world wide web and basically only those that I linked to it would even notice it.

I remembered writing my thoughts and memories down in notes and/or emails to a friend around the time of Kari's death and then again here and there when a tough moment would arise or a new event in the case happened. So I looked on my old computer and there they were. For cathartic reasons, I put some of those on the blog. I also added some memories that my son previously shared with me about his teacher. Within a couple of days of sharing personal things, some of Kari's family and friends found the blog and left a few comments and wanted to know who was behind this blog...that they found it such a blessing. I had never had occasion to meet Mrs. Dulin or anyone else in Kari's family (other than Matt and the girls). I had never had any correspondence with anyone involved until after I started this blog and then we connected in that way. I've emailed a few times with Mrs. Dulin since then and she has told me that my memories and stories on the blog give her joy, laughter and tears....good tears. She has told me that she re-reads and re-reads the following memory:


Quoted from the blog entry:"Remind me to tell you about the time........We were both worried about Bro's TAKS test stuff. We both knew he could do it....but were worried about his motivation to get through it as he should. Did I mention that she loved my boy? We worked together and worked together getting him ready. Literally. Worked. Together.

One day after the reading TAKS results had just gotten in and letters had been written to the parents but not mailed yet.....she was sooooooo excited to share with me that she knew Bro had not only passed, but passed WELL.......I was in the lunchroom with other parents that went in to pick up their kidlets and make eye contact with their teachers and try to keep up with the pulse of things. I saw Bro's class come out of the hallway. THEN.....I saw Mrs. Baker see me. She had a piece of paper in her hand. We made eye contact and she "lit up." Then............she skipped across the lunchroom to me. She didn't walk. She didn't glide. She didn't stand there with other teachers and just wave to me. She. Skipped. With that giant "Kari Baker" smile. She loved my boy and she loved and taught him so well he rocked that freakin' TAKS test. She was beaming. I was beaming watching her beam over my son. Now....right now...I'm a cross between beaming at the memory, crying that she's not here, and anger.....and now a bit of relief."

When Kari's Mom tells me that she can actually visualize this moment and can totally see Kari doing this and how she loves that others can also now "see Kari" in this way through my words....and that that makes her smile....well, I felt the beginning of........"the time will come when you can do something."

A few of the memories I've shared here:
Some old emails from the week after...
Reliving a memory...
My Sweet Boy

***I will update in a little later on how the blog has grown and morphed and become so much more than I intended.

Note: This is not the Q&A for Texas Monthly. That was very similar, same basic info, but in Q&A form.

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Texas Monthly is on the stands....

I haven't seen it myself but someone just emailed me to tell me they saw it on the stands. I actually read the article Sunday. If you have a subscription to TM, you can read the entire article online when updates to the March edition. (I'm not sure when they change months.) If you don't have a subscription yet, you can subscribe online. There is a lot of good information in the article but I have very mixed feelings about it. I think the author had lots to say but couldn't. Who knows. It's still an interesting read. I will say that I don't care for the way author categorized this blog in the article. It wasn't the impression I got from him in our emails. But that's not even close to an important point in the story/case. The fact is that much about Matt was revealed and that has been a long time coming. More to come in future stories, I'm sure. There were important things left out........and that will come in future stories/shows/press as well.

On the TexasMonthly.com website they have two web-extra features. One is a video of Skip talking about the case and then a Q&A with me. My answers are severely edited...for space sake, I suppose. Some of them don't make as much sense without the rest of the answer but I understand they have to edit. Later on I'll elaborate on those answers so you can see more of why I started this blog, how it's grown and what it's become and why I continue on with it.

Sunday, February 17, 2008

Word of the Day - Integrity

If you have integrity, nothing else matters.
If you don't have integrity, nothing else matters.
~Alan Simpson

Friday, February 15, 2008

Coming soon to a newstand (mailbox, grocery store, bookstore, waiting room) near you...

The March issue of the Texas Monthly magazine will hit the stands next week or so. Looking forward to a good story reported by executive editor Skip Hollandsworth. You can get TM's "A Sneak Peek at Our March Issue" from TexasMonthly.com. There's also a little blip about it in a WacoTrib.com blog by Ken Sury.

Soon there will be more insight and commentary on the TexasMonthly.com website regarding the investigative reporting involved.....and a few other things.

March should be an interesting month. Followed by an interesting April.

Monday, February 4, 2008

Upcoming press....

Wanted to highlight a recent comment left yesterday. As we know there is some press coming down the turnpike. I pray that the article and show will be full of truth and facts. Although with the 20/20 deal being one-sided, I think we know what that will sound like. But I can't blame the Dulins for not sharing thier hearts with any press that doesn't feel right.

February 3, 2008 5:55 PM
curious said...

Does anyone know when the "Texas Monthly" article is coming out? I hope that reporter did his or her homework!

I know someone who knows the Dulins. I heard they (Dulins) and those connected to them didn't talk to the 20/20 people. They just weren't confident in the people they spoke to initially. I didn't hear anything bad. I just heard they didn't want to be interviewed. I was told that 20/20 may be running the piece soon....that ought to be an "honest" report with nothing but MB's side interviewed (not). Oh well, the viewing public will get it.

Drop a comment if you know when the article and 20/20 will run.

Friday, January 25, 2008

Okay........

Okay. So I'm looking for some boots I haven't worn in a while.....in the bottom of my closet. Master closet is main storage area. Looking, moving over, looking...what's that? Wow. A stack of WCS yearbooks. These aren't "mine"....they were loaned to me when our alumni association was putting together a reunion and website a while back. Hmmmmmm....what years are these?

Have I mentioned the night I first met Kari at SV's "Blast Off" night before school.....August of 2005. Kari was a new teacher at our school that year. We were anxious to meet Bro's teacher and hoped it'd be a good fit. We were one of the first families there that night and Kari and I got to visit a while without too much interruption. Didn't take long at all to get to the fact we were both Waco Christian School Warriors. SMALL WORLD! I mean, my class was only 15. Small, small private school. She didn't come to WCS until after I had graduated. But we still had that "Warrior" bond right away. ;)

Okay. Back to the yearbooks I stumbled upon this morning. I found so many pictures of Kari. She was a part of so much that made up Waco Christian School. I will apologize ahead of time for the quality of the photos in this small school yearbook from 16ish years ago and the quality of being able to scan them in. But I don't think you will find it hard to find Kari in the following yearbook photographs. (Note: There were many more photos that were just too small, too dark or too fuzzy to scan well.)

I give you Waco Christian School 1991-1993.













Junior Year - Mascot, Varsity Basketball, Varsity Softball, Key Club, Active in Young Life, Who's Who, Most Improved Mascot, Spark Plug Award in softball, Most Improvced in Basketball,Active in church Youth Group.

Senior Year - Mascot, Varsity Basketball, Varsity Softball, Heart O' Texas Sweetheart, Key Club, Class Fundraisers, Active in church Youth Group.












I have much more to say.....will have to save it for another day. My kids are a 'callin.....

Once a Warrior...........Always a Warrior.

Goodnight.

Thursday, January 17, 2008

"The dead cannot cry out for justice; it is a duty of the living to do so for them."
~LMB (Lois McMaster Bujold)

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Amazed

I know by now I shouldn't be, but I am.....constantly amazed by what all exactly is completely public information if you just take the time, care and know where and how to get it.

A recent comment:
Anonymous said...
Go to the courthouse, read the court documents, open records, and see what the actual document said regarding visitation and counseling. Not exactally the way the Dulins are claiming.
January 7, 2008 3:31 PM


I'm holding the Plaintiff's Original Petition, original Respondent's (MB's) Proposal for Temporary Orders hand-scribbled changed to Rule 11 Agreement with the changes made by the Petitioners among MANY other motions and documents.


This proposal....(click to enlarge)

became this....


Cause NO. 2006-2220-4
IT IS ORDERED that MB enroll his children KB and GB in counseling no later than July 7th, 2006. IT IS ORDERED that MB notify LD and JD when each session has occurred. IT IS ORDERED that MB require the counselor to provide written confirmation as session is attended by the children the subject of this suit. IT IS ORDERED that MB provide said written confirmation by the counselor to LD and JD within three (3) days of each session.

It's all pretty clear. It does appear that he had to be ordered to have the girls in counseling. What EXACTLY did the commentor mean that wasn't as the Dulins have claimed?

For the record: I would not have made a big deal out of the counseling orders were it not for the fact that a commentor here on this blog called me out on it. And called the Dulins liars. That's the only reason I'm making this a headline post.




Copy of receipt added because 'someone' didn't believe I actually went. @@

Saturday, January 5, 2008

San Antonio story from December 27, 2007

A commentor pointed out that there was a story and video ran in San Antonio last week. Took a little digging through the mysanantonio.com site but I found it.


Kerrville man waiting for possible murder indictment <---story

News broadcast on KENS5 <---video

The comment left here was:
"If you still believe and are convinced that Matt is guilty, then you have not been watching the later videoes or reading the newspapers. As they are poointing out the other side and not just the affidavit that was so full of holes. San Antonio had a report on one of their tv stations last week."


And as I responded, it's laughable for someone to think that that a news story is enough to convince someone of anyone's guilt or innocence. That can't be done in a news broadcast, newspaper article or even a blog. Besides, this last news story doesn't show any new "evidence" or whatnot. It's just another attempt and gaining sympathy for Matt's circumstance. That's all. Although now they are amping it up by using the children.

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

The stuff you find.....

.....when cleaning out old files and papers. I found this letter dated April 10, 2006 from SV's principal to the SV parents:

Dear SV Parents,
The SV Elementary Community has suffered a tragic loss in the death of third grade teacher, Kari Baker. Mrs. Baker passed away at her home this weekend. Her two daughters, both SV students, and her husband have our deepest sympathies at this time of overwhelming grief and loss.

This morning at school, teachers shared with students about the loss of Mrs. Baker. Mrs. Y, our school counselor, visitied with Mrs. Baker's class, the other five third grade classes, and was available to meet the needs of other students in the school as needed. Dr. P, school psychologist, was also on hand to help students and staff as they work through their feelings at this difficult time.

I respectfully ask your support and understanding as the school family deals with their loss and as we do our best to minister to the Baker family in their time of bereavement. Please know that you can call Mrs. Y, our counselor, or me if there is anything we can do to help your child through the next few weeks.

Our hope is that, together, we can show the kind of love and care for one another as we honor the memory of Mrs. Baker by doing what she so capably did by showing her dedication to children and their education.

Sincerely,
Mrs. M



I will say that the school really seemed to do as well a job as can be done at a time like this. From what Bro said, one day that week they asked each one of the children to pick one of Mrs. Baker's most special things in the classroom and they put them together in a box to be taken to Matt and the girls. It made the kids feel like they were doing something to help. I've always wondered what happened to those special things after they were delivered. They had a couple other activities that seemed appropriate in helping the kids deal with a shock and grief such as this. It's a shame this kind of thing has to be dealt with by children at all.

Friday, December 28, 2007

Comment on the WacoTrib.com

New comment on the WacoTrib.com article......
I think whoever Eric is....he sums up a lot of people's thoughts.


By Eric
Dec 27, 2007 10:26 AM Link to this
I belive Mr. Baker has blocked what he has done out of his mind. Maybe he did not mean to do it, but he did. Someone of his stature always has the capability and assumpsion that they will be forgiven by God for anything they do, which is true. BUT Mr. Baker has made too many mistakes in his life to get past the law again! Yes, God will be with him as God is with everyone. This time the truth shall prevail in the trial. To the families involved God Bless you and may you all seek justice is what is right and deserved.

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Limbo......

Kerrville - DailyTimes.com
What is the point of this picture? It really looks bad to me.

Waiting in 'limbo' tough for Matt Baker

* I just realized that the picture doesn't show up on the link for the article. You have to click on "Front Page" on the left menu of the newspaper's site to see it.

Saturday, December 22, 2007

Confused. Yet....

GoodLordAMercy....... (yes, said all in one breath.....just like Grandma used to.) Someone is a bit excited and a bit confuzzled. It started with a comment on a post. And then the commentor was called out. I don't think that commentor liked that. He, I mean they/he/she/it, got jiggy with it and sent comment after comment to me off different posts because they/he/she/it knows I get all the comments emailed to me. Then got miffed because I didn't get them posted fast enough. Yeah, I got them. I've been busy the last 24 hours with my Mom being sick, shopping for Christmas and other busy, major stuff. Sorry I didn't "let" your comments through fast enough. No. I'm not afraid to. I read them quickly and saved as new to read again. Don't make sense. Thought they might if I read them again. Nope. But I'll just post them all together. Don't want you to feel slighted. But I think you missed the whole point of the original response from Lindsey/Ryann. SHE'S not hiding anything. But somebody is.

ORIGINAL COMMENT:
Anonymous said...
If open hands says you have nothing to hide, then one only has to look at the Waco Trib article of December 8 when there were 4 different photos on the top, and one will see hands wide open. And the close-ups are used to show emotions and a real person. In thinking back to the interviews of the Dulin family, Linda, Nancy, Ryann, etc, seems as tho they were all videoed using a far shot and not the close-up. Hummm? And now that they should be rebutting anything Matt says they have gone silent? December 19, 2007 11:58AM

REPLY COMMENT:
Ryann??? So busted!!! said...
The poster above makes me laugh (busted MB). No one calls me Ryann except family (or ex...very ex in this case). I was called Lindsey in interviews. Get you a job, boy!!! LINDSEY
December 19, 2007 5:29PM

ONSLAUGHT OF RESPONSES FROM THAT ORIGINAL COMMENTOR:

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "More Baker in the News":
May I say that I definitely am NOT MB, nor do I want to be. But I did, and still think of you as Ryann. I knew you as a teenager and have seen you around town ever since then. Was the name change an attempt to change your personality? Did it work? Doesn't seem to. Did Kari call you Lindsey or Ryann? HmmmmmmmmBusted!!!!
Posted by Anonymous at December 21, 2007 8:41 AM

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post ""Comments A Plenty"":
Again, let me inform you - I am NOT MB - but did know Ryann when she was Ryann - and have seen her a few times since she has attempted to change her image to Lindsey. Please do NOT assume I am MB! not LOL
Posted by Anonymous at December 21, 2007 8:44 AM

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "No one will ever know?":
OMG you are so BUSTED, Ryann, thought you only went by Lindsey!!!!! How many personalities do you really have?
Posted by Anonymous at December 21, 2007 8:49 AM

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "More Baker in the News":
Ryann, Lindsey, whoever who want to be, go back and look at your Dec. 12 posting on this site. You signed your own posting as RYANN. Caught you, Ryann. You can run, you can change your name, but you will be found out.
Posted by Anonymous at December 21, 2007 8:52 AM

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "POP QUIZ":
So, Shannon, you won't post that Ryann is the same as Lindsey, huh? She has even signed her posts a couple of times as Ryann.... I knew her years ago as Ryann. Makes someone wonder why a person would want to live under two names. And I am more interested to see if you will actually post this one, as you have not posted any of the other ones regarding this. hmmmmmm
Posted by Anonymous at December 22, 2007 5:27 PM

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "More Baker in the News":
Again, let me say that Lindsey and Ryann are the same person. I have known her for many years. Wonder why you won't post my responds?
Posted by Anonymous at December 22, 2007 5:28 PM

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post ""Comments A Plenty"":
Lindsey and Ryann are the same, however Shannon does not want to always allow truth to get posted.
Posted by Anonymous at December 22, 2007 5:29 PM

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "No one will ever know?":
First, RYANN, I might live in Waco but have had opportunity to know the Baker Family, and do not for a minute believe they are posting any of the negative things you are giving them credit for. They are above that. They loved Kari and would not want to see her image blasted the way you are saying they have, and are doing. Get real, Ryann, or Lindsey, whichever person you choose to be called this week. I have known you for years, and first knew you as Ryann.
Posted by Anonymous at December 22, 2007 5:35 PM

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "POP QUIZ":
So, Shannon, you won't post that Ryann is the same as Lindsey, huh? She has even signed her posts a couple of times as Ryann.... I knew her years ago as Ryann. Makes someone wonder why a person would want to live under two names. And I am more interested to see if you will actually post this one, as you have not posted any of the other ones regarding this. hmmmmmm
Posted by Anonymous at December 22, 2007 5:27 PM

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

POP QUIZ

Ready? This counts as a test grade.

Who is Ryann?

Monday, December 17, 2007

Accused killer speaks out....

KXXV - Channel 25 News Accused killer speaks out.......
(Article and 2 videos)

"When we got married it was for life. That's what our decision was, so divorce was never an option."

Really? Was this interview supposed to help the defense? I have many, many little notes that I scribbled down while watching this. I won't share them here, though, as much as I'd like to. I don't want to give the defense any more insight into public thinking on Matt's words and actions. But I'm seriously wondering what Mr. Gray is up to. This is very odd. He is trying to help him, right?

Sunday, December 16, 2007

Christmas

Every year the kids at SV Elementary take a picture with their teacher for an ornament. Some of them seem to be more special than others. ;) Finally found the key to Bro's safe to get this special one out for the tree.



You know.....you just never know. Your kids bring home stuff from school ALL the time. Some things stand out as special. Some don't. Of course, this year's ornament was special from Day 1. Yet after Christmas 2005 it was packed away without worry or second-thought. Neither Brody nor I knew exactly how special it was at the time.

It wasn't until the next Christmas when the tree was being trimmed and the ornaments came out. You "ooohhhhh" and "ahhhhh" over so many of them remembering where you were when you bought it....or who gave it to you.....or "this is for you when you grow up," etcetera.


Well, that first "Christmas after" Brody was very protective of this one. For Christmas 2006, Bro received one of the things he had been asking for for a while.....a nice safe. After Christmas 2006, when the tree and ornaments were being packed away, he took this ornament and put it in his new safe....along with another special picture of him with his Kindergarten teacher that had some major health issues and he never got to see again.

For Christmas 2007, it's as special as last year.......and then also much more poignant for me.

Saturday, December 15, 2007

More Baker in the News

NBC Channel 6 - KCEN TV News
Friday, December 14, 2007

Former local pastor accused of killing his wife speaks out

More of the same....with video.

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

"Comments A Plenty"

I have my settings set so that when a comment is left on my blog, it is also emailed to me. I'm glad because otherwise I might miss a lot. Be sure to check older posts sometimes. I still get comments on posts I wrote in September, October and November. They are all interesting to say the least.

Just wanted to highlight a couple of busy comment areas over the last few days. I'll let you draw you own conclusions. I got a birthday party to get to. Nite.

Don't Even Get Me Started: Changes - Effective Immediately

Don't Even Get Me Started: No one will ever know?

Monday, December 10, 2007

Baker ready to talk about wife's death....

Baker ready to talk about wife's death - San Antonio Express News

Not bad, Zeke.
More comments later. Gotta run.

Sunday, December 9, 2007

Interesting Thought...

Quoting a few sentences from a comment on the WacoTrib.com article/ad that Matt and his attorney had published yesterday:
"Furthermore, can anyone besides me see what Mr. Gray is doing? He's trying to
get a change of venue. He's a publicity hound in the style of Racehorse
Haynes." ~Saddened by This

Once this case goes national, the entire Texas jury pool will know and see and read what there is to offer. It will be impossible to hide in this great state. Newspapers and news stations in not only Waco and the surrounding area but also in Dallas, Ft. Worth, Tyler, Longview, Houston, San Antonio, Kerrville, El Paso, Abilene, Lubbock, Fredricksburg, Harlingon, Corpus Christi and many others are already reporting on this case. And that list will only grow.

You can run on for a long time....run on for a long time.......sooner or later........

Saturday, December 8, 2007

:::::::::::::::: B-A-C-K-F-I-R-E

Nice try, guys.

WacoTrib.com Matt Baker says rumor, innuendo fuel murder charge against him

Very interesting -- the comments portion after the article.

Number of comments at last check = 12 (now 23 -1 that the Trib deleted*)
People who think things smell reeeeaaally bad=11 (now 19-1 that the Trib deleted*)
People in favor of Matt or at least want to reserve their thoughts= 3
This interview’s help for the prosecution = priceless

*I understand why the Trib had to delete Lora's comment so they wouldn't get in trouble by allowing posts that are that powerful and yet not proved YET. YET seems to be one of the words of the day. I'm okay with that. ;) The virtue of patience is starting to suit me.

Friday, December 7, 2007

No one will ever know?

There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known. What you have said in the dark will be heard in the daylight, and what you have whispered in the ear in the inner rooms will be proclaimed from the roofs.
~Jesus

Thursday, December 6, 2007

Scripture for Thought....

2 Corinthians 11:13-15
"These people are false apostles. They are deceitful workers who disguise themselves as apostles of Christ. But I am not surprised! Even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light. So it is no wonder that his servants also disguise themselves as servants of righteousness. In the end they will get the punishment their wicked deeds deserve."

Monday, December 3, 2007

Arrest Affidavit

Friday, September 21, 2007
Below is the text from the arrest warrant affidavit issued Friday morning for Matt Baker in the death of his wife, Hewitt teacher Kari Lynn Baker.
Matt Baker surrendered to Kerr County law enforcement officials by day’s end.
An affidavit is a sworn statement alleging probable cause to support an arrest.
Texas Ranger Matt Cawthon and Hewitt Police Det. Ben Toombs obtained the warrant. The text below has been slightly amended.


THE CITY OF HEWITT } Case No: 06-0439

COUNTY OF McLENNAN } COMPLAINT

THE STATE OF TEXAS }

THE UNDERSIGNED AFFIANT, BEING A PEACE OFFICER UNDER THE LAWS OF THE STATE OF TEXAS AND BEING DULY SWORN, ON OATH MAKES THE FOLLOWING STATEMENTS AND ACCUSATIONS

I, Ben Toombs, a licensed peace officer in the State of Texas and employed by the Hewitt Police Department and hereafter referred to as the Affiant, do solemnly swear that I have reason to believe and do believe that Matthew Dee Baker, a white male, date of birth 09-07-1971, hereafter referred to as the Defendant, committed the offense of Murder on or about 04-07-2006 in McLennan County, Texas. On or about that date, the Defendant intentionally or knowingly committed the offense of Murder by causing the death of Kari Lynn Baker by using prescription and/or over-the-counter sleeping medication and alcohol to render her defenseless and then using a pillow or similar item to suffocate her.

IT IS THE BELIEF OF YOUR AFFIANT THAT THE ABOVE SUSPECTED PARTY HAS COMMITTED THIS CRIMINAL ACT IN VIOLATION OF THE LAWS OF THE STATE OF TEXAS, AND AFFIANT HAS PROBABLE CAUSE FOR SAID BELIEF BY REASON OF THE FOLLOWING ACTS, TO WIT:

My name is Ben Toombs and hereafter referred to as the Affiant. Your Affiant is a Certified Peace Officer in the State of Texas and presently employed as a Criminal Investigator with the Hewitt Police Department in Hewitt, Texas. Your Affiant has been a police officer for seven (7) years and during that time, your Affiant has investigated dozens of felony crimes including the crime of homicide. Your Affiant is currently investigating the death of a woman from Hewitt, Texas, named Kari Lynn Baker. Kari Lynn Baker died on or about April 7, 2006, at her home in Hewitt, Texas. In preparing this affidavit, Affiant has interviewed individuals connected with the case, has reviewed police reports prepared by the City of Hewitt, Texas, and has spoken with experts regarding forensic matters.

At the time of her death, Kari Baker was a schoolteacher in the Midway Independent School District located in Central Texas. She was married to the Defendant, a local Baptist preacher. Sometime in early 2006, the Defendant apparently became interested in having a relationship with (another) woman . In addition to this job, the Defendant worked as the Chaplain at the Waco Center for Youth. Records show that the Defendant’s cellular telephone contacted the home where the woman lived on dozens of occasions between January and April 2006.

According to the woman, the Defendant would call her once or twice a day from his cellular telephone or his work telephone. The woman indicated that she believed that the Defendant was “interested” in her. Investigation by your Affiant revealed that within days after the death of Kari Baker, the Defendant was with a woman who matched this woman’s description and the two of them were in a jewelry store in Richland Mall in Waco, Texas shopping for engagement rings.

Computer records provided by the Waco Center for Youth reveal that, in early March 2006, the Defendant began to seek internet sites dealing with drug overdose and specifically with prescription drugs. On March 9, 2006, the Defendant did a computer search regarding “overdose by sleeping pill.” Also on March 9,2006, the Defendant did a computer search for the prescription drug Ambien. As Affiant will describe later, it was determined that Kari Baker had Ambien in her system at the time of her death. On March 20, 21 and 23, 2006, the Defendant visited numerous internet sites that which sold prescription medication. On March 26, 2006, at 1:12 p.m., the Defendant visited an internet site known as “prescriptiondrugplanet.” Two (2) minutes later, at 1:14 p.m., a site known as “pharmbilling” was connected to the Defendant’s computer. Your Affiant believes that “pharmbilling” is a service, which handles payment for prescription medication ordered from an internet site. In addition, on March 23,2006, at 1:28 p.m., the Defendant’s computer at the Waco Center for Youth was connected to an internet site registered as “SecureRxCart.” Your Affiant believes that this is another indication of a purchase by the Defendant of prescription medication ordered from an internet site.

According to Kari Baker’s family, Kari Baker and the Defendant were having difficulties in their relationship in the weeks before her death. On or about Monday, April 3, 2006, Kari Baker found a bottle of crushed pills in the Defendant’s briefcase. When she asked him where the pills came from, he told her that the kids from the Waco Center for Youth must have put them there. The Defendant told Kari Baker that sometimes the children spit out their medicine and that is where the pills came from. Your Affiant has learned that the Waco Center for Youth has a strict pill policy and that the Defendant was not around children when they took medicine nor did he take his briefcase to areas of the Waco Center for Youth other than his office. Further, Affiant has learned that the Defendant possessed the only key that would unlock his office door and that he locked the door each day when he was not in his office. After Kari Baker’s death, the Defendant spoke with members of the Hewitt, Texas, Police Department and told them a different story regarding the pills. The Defendant told the police that the pills his wife saw in his briefcase were Kari Baker’s and that she must have hidden them in his briefcase.

The Defendant told the police that on Friday, April 7, 2006, he and his wife, Kari, went to the YMCA in Waco, Texas late in the afternoon for a swimming lesson for their oldest daughter. The Defendant told police that his wife felt ill at the YMCA. The Defendant told other witnesses that Kari was lethargic and nauseated at the YMCA and had to lie down. Witnesses who saw Kari Baker at the YMCA on April 7, 2006, stated that she did not appear to be ill and that she was acting normally. The Defendant told police that they returned home from the YMCA and that later, about 11:15 p.m., Kari Baker asked the Defendant to go and rent some movies, to put gasoline in the car and to get some candy. The Defendant claimed that he and Kari Baker both drank one (1) or more “fuzzy navel” wine coolers prior to him leaving. The Defendant claimed that he then left the house at approximately 11:15 p.m., purchased gasoline, rented movies, and returned home at about midnight. The Defendant claimed that when he returned home, he found the bedroom door locked and he had to get a screwdriver to open it. The Defendant stated that when he opened the door, he found Kari Baker on the bed, nude, and that she was cold to the touch and her lips were blue. The Defendant then telephoned 9-1-1 and then claimed to have put clothes on Kari Baker and attempted to administer CPR on her body.

According to ambulance officials, who arrived on the scene at 12:15 a.m. on April 8, 2006, Kari Baker was already deceased and lividity had been set. Your Affiant knows that lividity is a discoloration of the body caused from blood pooling in the lower parts of the body. Police who arrived on the scene found a typed, unsigned note next to the bed along with a bottle of Unisom tablets, an over-the-counter sleep aid.

Your Affiant is aware that Dr. David Stafford of Memphis, Tennessee, has reviewed the evidence in this investigation. Dr. Stafford was the Director of Toxicology for the University Of Tennessee Medical School. Dr. Stafford has determined that if Kari Baker had ingested enough Ambien or Unisom to cause her death, it could not have taken place in the time frame given by The Defendant to police. Dr. Stafford believes it would have taken at least an hour or more longer than the time frame explained. Your Affiant knows that at autopsy, after her body had been exhumed and disinterred, forensic examiners determined that Ambien and Unisom were found in Kari Baker’s muscle tissue.

Your Affiant is also aware that Tom Bevel of Norman, Oklahoma, has reviewed the evidence in this investigation. Mr. Bevel is a well-known expert on homicides and homicide investigation and a published authority on numerous subjects including crime scene investigation. Mr. Bevel claimed that he believed that Kari Baker was not nude at the time of her death as the Defendant described. Mr. Bevel believed that Kari Baker’s panties were put on by her, not someone (else,) after her death. Your Affiant believes that the Defendant may have told the story that Kari Baker was nude to provide a reason for her body to be cold to the touch. Also, Mr. Bevel believed that lividity could not have begun and become set in the time frame given by the Defendant. Mr. Bevel believed that it would have taken much longer for the body to become cold and lividity to set. Your Affiant has seen an abrasion that is evident on Kari Baker’s nose in the crime scene photographs. There is also the appearance of bruising to Kari Baker’s lips. Your Affiant believes that these wounds are consistent with what would happen if a pillow or another similar object were placed over someone’s face to suffocate them. Your Affiant is aware that there were pillows, including what appears to be a course-woven pillow, in the room where Kari Baker’s body was found.

On Tuesday, April 4, 2006, Kari Baker met with Joanne Bristol, a counselor (in) Waco, Texas. Kari Baker told Ms. Bristol that she believed that the Defendant was going to kill her. According to Ms. Bristol, Kari Baker was suspicious of the pills she found in the Defendant’s briefcase and previously mentioned in this affidavit. Kari Baker also told Ms. Bristol that she believed that the Defendant was having an illicit affair with another woman. Your Affiant is aware that on April 7, 2006, Kari Baker had a job interview for a teaching position at the Midway Middle School. At the time, Kari Baker was a teacher at the Spring Valley Elementary School of the Midway Independent School District. Kari Baker told several individuals that she believed the interview went well and she was positive about the prospect of a new position within the school district. Your affiant believes that, according to friends and relatives, Kari Baker was very positive about the future and not suicidal.

At the time of Kari Baker’s death, the Defendant had access to three (3) computers. Of these computers, one (1) was at Crossroads Baptist Church, one (1) was at the Waco Center for Youth and one (1) was at the Baker residence. On or about June 14,2006, an officer of the Hewitt Police Department went to the Waco Center for Youth to speak with the Defendant. In that same time frame, the Crossroads Baptist Church demanded that the Defendant return the church computer that he had been using. According to computer technicians at the Waco Center for Youth, the Defendant covertly switched computers with his secretary (on) June 14, 2006 when he learned that a Hewitt Police officer was coming to The Waco Center for Youth. The Defendant even switched inventory labels on the computers in an effort to disguise the computer switch. On or about June 17, 2006, the Defendant disposed of his home computer. In a civil deposition, the Defendant explained that he disposed of the computer because it was too slow. In that same deposition The Defendant claimed that he threw away his home computer printer because it was “not compat.” On or about June 19, 2006, the computer located at the Defendant’s secretary’s desk, which was actually the Defendant’s computer, went missing. This date was a state holiday when all administrative offices of the Waco Center for Youth were closed. There were, however, a few employees working that day and one (1) of the employees remembers seeing the Defendant go into his office area.

Your affiant is also aware that the Defendant received approximately $50,000.00 in benefits from the death of his wife. Based upon Affiant’s experience and review of the evidence in this case, your Affiant believes that the Defendant used Ambien in connection with alcohol or alcohol in connection with Unisom to render Kari Baker defenseless and then did and there cause the death of Kari Baker.

WHEREFORE, AFFIANT ASKS FOR ISSUANCE OF A WARRANT THAT WILL AUTHORIZE THE ARREST OF THE SUSPECTED PARTY.

Description: Matthew Dee Baker

Sunday, December 2, 2007

Inclined to Agree...

Letter to the Editor in the Kerrville Dailytimes.com

November 21, 2007

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Take time to read arrest warrant. Regarding the benefit to raise funds for Matt Baker’s defense: Perhaps those so inclined to raise money should read the arrest warrant which led to the capture of Matt Baker. Maybe these kindly folks would be less likely to financially contribute to this “cause.”

Though Mr. Baker might be considered innocent until proven guilty, I would be hesitant to support the legal defense of a man who was looking at an engagement ring for his mistress days after his wife’s death.

Save your benevolence for those who aren’t quite so suspect. Showing mercy is a good thing. Throwing pearls before swine is foolhardy.

Julie Janik, Dallas
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While I do not know this letter-to-the-editor writer, I am inclined to agree.

Friday, November 30, 2007

Comments........

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "Anonymous has left a new comment.....":

Shannon I did not jump your case and I have read it from beginning to end. I even posted regularly until you started slamming Matt. I stopped making any comments at that point. I continued reading because occasionally someone would say something nice and I needed that. Then, you just continued to defend yourself and this site and you would write the occasional bash comments in between so called memories. You confuse me when you argue that you are not bashing and that is not what this site is about because you do quite a bit of bashing in between your memories!
Posted by Anonymous to Don't Even Get Me Started at November 30, 2007 8:06 PM

But you have to admit....as would anyone reading....that my posts have become MUCH more dry C&P'd news. And then lately defending my right to have my own blog. I started off with memories and shock in my heart at this. Then tossed in some pissed and ready to fight. I have become more careful in my words and posts and what I think is okay to let come through without hurting those that are like-minded with me. I still have not met Kari's family......but I feel them. I still cannot explain my "role" in Kari's story. But I have felt her hand on me since she passed. I cannot let it go. It's not in me. I'm trying to be careful. But seriously, it's my blog. I answer only to myself...and my God-given conscience.

Okay. That was my reply comment. I apologize for saying "pissed" and not editing it. It's just the word that fits. Sorry.

Thursday, November 29, 2007

Anonymous has left a new comment.....

I want to make sure that comments are being read. There are quite a few. The ones I feel comfortable with letting pass through, I do. FYI: This whole thing is 1 blog. My entries are called posts. Comments to those posts are called comments. It's frustrating to read someting like the comment below saying, "....your opening statement on this particular blog......" That's an opening statement on a particular post. It's not the opening statement on this blog. Big difference.

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "Outstanding? Wonderful person?":

Shannon I have no dought you will not post my comment but here goes.You say over and over that you are not here to bash or start anything and that this site is in honor and memory of Kari. What exatly then is your opening statement on this paticular blog other than bashing? I have to admit this is the first time I have seen you bash him this way! Why is it that you decided to do this after all the defending of yourself of the opposite? I have to wonder where the memory of Kari is in that!

Dear Anonymous,
Please.
Please.
Please.
Read this blog from the beginning forward....not the reverse.
You will see how this blog was meant to be.
You will see how it took on a life of its own.
You will see how I decided to tone it down.
You will see that I don't say everything that I want to say. I am trying.
I will leave the rest to the Courts and to Our God Almighty.
But read this blog in order before you jump my case, please.
I'm not perfect. But I am growing...and honing my "bite my tongue" skills.

Shannon

Monday, November 19, 2007

Fund Raiser

Kerrville's DailyTimes.com : Community Turns Out for Baker Fund Raiser

By Alison Beshur The Daily Times

Published November 19, 2007

Sporting a green “Live Strong”-type bracelet inscribed with the word “Defense,” Matt Baker strolled around the Louise Hays Park Pavilion chatting, shaking hands and hugging attendees at a fund raiser to help fight a case against him.“ It’s unbelievable to know the support I have,” Baker said. “Some of the people, I don’t know who they are. ... It’s amazing.”

In late September, Baker was arrested on a warrant that alleged he murdered his wife in April 2006 in their home near Waco. Her death had been ruled a suicide, but was later changed to “undetermined.”

After her death, Baker returned to Kerrville, where he had grown up, attended school and his parents still live. He brought his two daughters ages 7 and 11 and found a job working as a substitute teacher for the Kerrville Independent School District.

His late wife’s parents filed a wrongful death lawsuit, ordered depositions and then gave some of that information to the Hewitt Police Department for a criminal investigation.

Baker has not charged been formally by a grand jury in McLennan County. The next grand jury meeting is Nov. 28.

Since Baker was released in late October, his family has continued to receive an outpouring of support. Some of that was evident at Sunday’s fund-raising event. Attendees not only bought tickets for barbecue plates and baked goods and placed bids on silent auction items, but they also simply wrote checks to help with Baker’s defense fund. By the end of the night, more than $7,500 had been raised.

“I think we’re going to have a successful fund raiser, helping his family out with immediate needs,” said Brenda Hughes, an owner of Buzzie’s Bar-B-Q and one of the organizers. “It’s heartwarming to see the support and people not necessarily wanting anything in return.” Her son, Tyler “Buzzie” Hughes, said Baker was his substitute algebra teacher for three months last school year. Aside from teaching the subject, Baker also gave him advice and made comments to cheer up the now 16-year-old sophomore.

Most of his classmates don’t talk about the arrest, but many feel the same way about Baker’s arrest.“It’s a sore subject,” Tyler Hughes said. “No one wanted to believe it when we heard about. It was really hard to believe.”

Margo Walters said she felt “called” to attend the fund raiser to help a classmate she had known for decades and a local family who had given to others. The Bakers often served as parent sponsors for church activities and took in dozens of foster children.“Their hugs were genuine and free,” Walters said while finishing her plate of barbecue. “When you come together under God’s will, wonderful things happen.

Walters described her former classmate as “likable” and someone with a “genuine and awesome heart.” Of everyone she knew in high school, he would be her pick as the most unlikely candidate to face murder charges.“I was shocked when I heard,” Walters said. “I still am very puzzled by what is happening to this family.”

Saturday, November 17, 2007

Changes - Effective Immediately

1. This is my blog.
2. Kari was my friend.
3. I believe with all my heart that she did not take her own life.
4. I am interested in truth and justice.
5. The evidence in support of Kari WILL NOT be placed on a blog in posts or comments.
6. The evidence will be provided to interested parties AT the trial. Not here.
7. This does not mean the evidence doesn't exist.
8. Investigators, law enforcement agencies, experts, witnesses, family and friends aren't going to talk and produce such evidence until the time is right.
9. They will not be pushed into speaking prematurely.
10. Just hang on.
11. I am interested in collecting information and news about this case as it unfolds.
12. I am interested in creating and maintaining a place of support for others seeking truth and justice for Kari.
13. Some of my early-on posts were very strong and passionate with all this stuff coming out again.
14. But in the last few weeks I have focused my posts to more news and facts related and also more memories.
15. I don't like way the comments area has turned into a wrestling match.
16. It's not taking this blog (this little community) in the direction that I feel comfortable with.
17. I am deleting comments with personal attacks on Kari.
18. I will moderate future comments.
19. As I said in yesterday's post, if this irritates the fire out of you, feel free to not engage.
20. You don't need to volunteer yourself to be irritated.
21. Neither do I.
22. This is a blog in support of Kari and truth and justice.
23. That's all.

Friday, November 16, 2007

Who are we to judge?

"God alone has the power to judge eternal judgement and/or final condemnation. But God commands believers to test, prove, judge and discern what is true and what is right and wrong. We are not to judge the hearts and intents of man, but we are to judge actions and discern right from wrong. The word 'judge' (Greek-krino) is used over 80 times in the New Testament and it means to call in question, discern, conclude, decree and determine." (letusreason.org - I don't know this organization but I liked the way this was worded so I used it.)

John 7:24, Hebrews 5:14, 1 Thessalonians 5:21, Matthew 18:16, and 1 Thessalonians 5:21 as a start. The Bible is very clear and strong on this point.

Good Question: Who are we to Judge? (by B. Larson on ChristianityToday.com)

Common sense suggests that if no one ever judged other people, there would be no real human community. In a sinful world, no community can exist for long where nobody is ever held accountable: no teacher would grade a student's performance; no citizen would sit on a jury or call a failed leader to account. And, when you come to think of it, nobody would ever forgive anyone for wrongs he had done; we only forgive people for what we blame them, and we blame them only after we have judged them.


Is it right to judge others? (Good article by M. Randall)

Today it seems the most often quoted Bible verse is Matthew 7:1, “Judge not, that ye be not judged." Some use it without realizing its true meaning and others, Christian and non Christians, use it to avoid accountability. Hypocrites for example would use it to avoid being challenged in their wrong doing. What does this verse really mean? Does this verse teach that we cannot judge others?



If someone believes there is good evidence and belief that someone commits a crime such as murder, they are not to just sit by and do and think nothing. They are to deliver the alleged offender to the authorities and prove, test and discern. This is what our criminal justice system is for. Surely no one wants to do away with the Courts and trials of all kinds because they are afraid to judge right from wrong and to free the righteous and rebuke and punish the evildoer. I do not and will not ever judge Matt's soul. If he did this and it's proved he did this beyond a shadow of a doubt, I pray that he repents and earnestly seeks God's forgiveness and receives it. I don't want him to go to hell. I am not trying to condemn him at all. And if he's innocent, what a wonderful relief and joyous day it will be when all this is officially put behind him. But this case needs to be tried. The truth deserves to come out. Don't we all want that?


Responding to whoever wrote responding that they agreed with me totally but....
I don't think that my postings and/or comments are evil in the least. I do feel passionately and probably come across that way a lot. I won't apologize for that. Until I see/hear evidence conflicting my opinions, I do not think/believe Kari took her own life. I don't think Kari "chose to leave her girls." It's a gut wrenching subject matter we're discussing and feelings and passions are heated. It's human nature. I've time and time again said I'm not condemning anyone. Not my job. But I am commanded by God to test and discern what is right and wrong and stand on the side of right....to pray....and let God work his plan. In this day and age and with my affinity to the internet and information and communication, I chose to start a blog with the links and information on this case. I never dreamed anyone besides me and a few of my friends and family would ever even see this. I really never dreamed that both family and friends of Matt's and Kari's would come here at all...especially with the frequency and number of hits each day that this blog is getting. Someone complained that this blog is too one-sided on Kari's behalf. Well, it is my blog. I post the news reports and I post my reactions to those reports, my thoughts and my memories. I'm not sitting on the fence on this and neither should my output. If you agree with me and find solace here, check back and keep in touch. If you don't agree with me and this blog just irritates the fire out of you.....I don't mean this rudely at all.....but you don't have to check back and keep in touch. Don't put more irritation into your life than you have already.

With such a passionate and intense subject matter as this, you would expect feelings and opinions to be expressed. Mine...and those commenting to mine and/or others. Yes, sometimes they are calm and sometimes they are more heated. But I don't find my posts or comments evil.

A few of my favorite quotes sum it up:

All that is necessary for evil to succeed is that good men do nothing. ~Edmund Burke

He who does not punish evil, commands it to be done. ~Leonardo da Vinci

When good people in any country cease their vigilance and struggle, then evil men prevail. ~Pearl S. Buck

The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. ~Albert Einstein

Be honest in your judgment and do not decide at a glance (superficially and by appearances); but judge fairly and righteously. ~God


We just need to examine the evidence so we can properly (not superfically) once and for all determine in this case.

Monday, November 12, 2007

Come on....Share a memory

I would love it if you guys that come and read and visit Kari's blog would share some of your memories of Kari...not only with me, but with any family and/or friends that might be reading along as well. Feel free to comment anonymously if you wish. Just share those memories. If you want to add your name, wonderful. Or even if you want to let us know a general "title" of who you are...for example, family, co-worker, church family, friend, parent of a child she taught, went to school/college with her....that would be nice. You don't have to keep it to one memory. Come back and share more as you think of them. Or comment off someone else's comment if it reminds you of something. Funny. Serious. Spiritual. Educational. Crazy. Let's make this post and comment section a sweet and voluminous tribute to our memories of Kari.

Who's first? ;)

Thursday, November 8, 2007

Baker Returns Home to Warm Welcome

By Tammy Prout
November 8, 2007

When Matt Baker got word his bond had been reduced and his parents were coming to get him, he only had one thing on his mind.“I wanted to hug my girls,” Baker said. And hug his girls he did on Oct. 25 in McLennan County.“We knew that there was going to be a lot of media there, so we were a little concerned,” Baker said. “But the jail administration allowed my family to drive right up into the covered area and the girls exited on the opposite side of the vehicle so that they were not exposed to the television cameras.”How did it feel?" “It was great. I needed that. We needed that,” he said.

An arrest warrant was issued for Baker in August, charging him with the death of his wife, Kari, who died in August of 2006. Her death was initially ruled a suicide by the Hewitt Police department, which then later assigned another investigator to the case and changed the ruling. Since he was arrested Aug. 21, Baker’s parents, Barbara and Oscar, have been caring for his children, ages 11 and 7, communicating with attorneys and trying to figure out how to come up with the funds it was going to take to get Baker home. The initial bond was set at $400,000, which was eventually reduced to $200,000.“I know this has been hard on them,” Baker said. “But keeping the girls routine was first and foremost on our minds.”While incarcerated, Baker spoke with his parents daily.“I called them every day and checked on the girls. We had to go over what was happening with the attorneys,” Baker said. “It cost $11 for 15 minutes.”Barbara and Oscar, like many area residents and students, are steadfast in their belief that Baker did not and could not have murdered his wife.“I have nothing to hide. I am an open book. I am accused of something I did not do,” Baker said. “I know that, and the people who know me know that.”

One of the decisions Barbara and Oscar made for their son was to seek the help of Guy James Gray, a 25-year veteran prosecutor, now operating a private practice.As was previously reported, it was Gray who was able to have Baker’s bond reduced.Barbara said she was apprehensive at first to make such an important decision on her son’s behalf.“My mom told me she had met with Mr. Gray and said she felt very good about him,” Baker said. “Her exact
words were that he was a ‘Godsend.’”After meeting with Gray, Baker said he agreed. “I know he would not have taken this case if he did not believe in my innocence,” Baker said.Keith Williams, a local attorney, family friend and Baker’s former Bible school teacher helped introduce the family to Gray. He will also assist Gray during the trial.Since returning home, Baker said he feels
loved. “I can see it in people’s eyes when I’m in the grocery store or dropping the girls off at school,” he said. “Sometimes they will just stop and let me know that they are praying for me and my family. That means so much."

”The Bakers will not publicly discuss Kari’s parents. However, it is they who filed and dropped a civil wrongful death suit against Baker, claiming he is the cause of the death of their only child. “We’ve been going through this now for a year-and-a-half. My girls and I have never been able to grieve,” Baker said. “I’ve lost my wife. My children have lost their mother.” To date, the case has not gone before a grand jury. Baker said he will trust Gray with his life.“There’s no evidence linking me to Kari’s death. I’ve taken and passed a lie-detector test,” Baker said. Patience, however, will have to be a virtue for the Baker family, as they put their trust in Gray and let the justice system work as it should.


I'm not positive....but I don't think that Kari was an only child. Doesn't she (didn't she) have a brother?

Saturday, November 3, 2007

From a recent comment....

I wanted to share this comment because I'm afraid it might have gotten lost. It's a recent comment but it's on an older post. It's another eye witness to Matt and Kari's lives who shares her thoughts.

"I thank the Lord above that He, alone, is in control. I am saddened, broken-hearted and truly amazed that so many here choose to comment and present opinions anonymously.

I was a Youth and Music Minister at Williams Creek Baptist Church while Matt was Pastor. It was during that time that Kassidy, their second born, died. Honestly, I have tried to sit the fence on this one, to let God take care of it all. I care deeply for Matt and Kari and their girls. But this is what I know... After watching the pure and complete agony of losing a child, Kari would not and could not take her own life. It was absolute torture to WATCH her mourn for her daughter. I cannot even begin to imagine what torture it was for her to let go of Kassidy and let God take care of her. But here's the kicker... She did it. She knew that Kassidy was finally in a place where she was free to be all God created her to be without sickness and pain. Kari got there. She reached that point that no mother should have to endure.Conversely, Matt never seemed to let himself feel the pain of that loss. He was back to preaching immediately. A sign of strenth and resolve? I think not. More like a route to escape. A way out. A chance to run from reality and never truly come to terms with the loss of a child-- an innocent victim in a tragically lost world.

Do I think Matt killed Kari? I think that Matt was cheating on his wife and wanted to get out of his marriage without scarring his reputation or losing custody of his daughters. That's what I think.I pray that our Lord will guide my heart and my mind as well as all those who hold Matt's fate in their hands. I also pray that those who have opinions to state and thoughts to share will do so pubically and without shame of retribution. Peace to you all."

Friday, November 2, 2007

Example of "Collateral Damage"

As I've said before, the "collateral damage" resulting from what happened to Kari is far reaching. When pastors/ministers/preachers do such reprehensible things, it gives those with a bone to pick about Christianity in general fodder for discussion. I know that there are people of all faiths and religious backgrounds (be they 'leaders' or not) along with people with no religious faith that do horrible, evil things. But it's not a flaw of Christianity. It's a flaw of that human that did it.

I do not in any way fault this blogger for speaking his mind. It seems that plenty of "Christians" have torpedoed fodder to him and others with similar beliefs. It's just a different angle that Christians don't aways take into account when they stumble.....or crash into a brick wall is the case. Others are always watching. Our examples scream out to everyone around us. Here is an exerpt from Deep Thoughts:
"Former Baptist pastor and current part-time youth minister
Matthew "Matt" Baker was arrested for the murder of his wife yesterday. If one
is looking for proof that being a Christian bestows some higher
moral values on its adherents, this case will serve as a classic example of
why this type of reasoning is flawed.


The allegations are damming for a normal person, for a
pastor they show an utter lack moral conviction. Matt Baker was a pastor when he
starting having an affair. His desire to be with his new girlfriend is alleged
to have driven him to murder his wife. Baker is alleged to have researched how
to kill his wife via the Internet and then administering the drugs that caused
her death.
"

Thursday, November 1, 2007

Fundraising Info?

A couple of comments mentioned some big fundraising efforts on Matt's behalf. Does anyone have information on those?